I’m wondering if it’s even possible to do it the way I’m planning.
Kopano (Core, Webapp, Meet) and COTURN on the local server (com01.internaldomain.local) and these for Meet as well as for TURN externally accessible under:
Certainly possible but I would not recommend to do it this way. But one note first: Meet is only fully supported when using the Kopano provided Turn service. Simply because we cannot provide reliable support for third party turn installations and this is often the thing that goes wrong at the customer.
Reasons to not install turn in a local lan:
the turn server is used as a fallback if a direct connection between peers cannot be established. Therefore it can be quite traffic intensive. So that will be a problem unless someone has a 100/100 internet connection (or better of course)
for best connection results the turn server should be available on port 443 instead of the default one. A lot of networks are locked down to only allow the most common ports and would otherwise block connections to the turn server